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Can I Be Me?: The Conflict of Creative Authenticity

Authenticity. According to Wikipedia, Authenticity-Authentic-Authentication is ‘the act of confirming the truth of an attribute.

Truth, unlike ‘fact,’ is an unchangeable and consistent reality. While an attribute, in its noun form according to Merriam-Webster, is ‘a quality or feature regarded as a characteristic or inherent part of someone or something.

As a creative, a being made in the image of the Master Creator, Yeshua-Jesus, you have the inherent DNA to create. (More on that in The Call to Create.) There are specific, unchangeable attributes about what you have been given to offer to the world, things that are waiting for you to discover and share, that are unique to you and unrivaled by others.

“The struggle that we all face in our creative journeys is summed up in one phrase; the urge to be a people-pleaser.”

It could be in the way you paint, throw a football, run a boardroom, or even how you nurture children in your home or in an educational environment. Whatever it is, it is unique to you.

But, more often than not, the noise of the world around us, the shifting trends of what is acceptable versus what is shunned, tends to not only stifle our creative voices to near silence, but they also whittle away at, and shape our uniqueness into something that can seem like a carbon-copy of things already done or voices already heard.

Although we may find ourselves drowning in a sea of ‘likes’ and ‘shares’ with our contributions flooding the shores of social media when we follow the creative-status-quo, something within us tends to groan with frustration, knowing that the high number of followers isn’t enough. The ‘likes’ no longer give us the buzz we craved.

Maybe you are a person who isn’t even abreast of the ebbs and flows of the social-media world or algorithms, but still, you find yourself inundated with the pressures to ‘be’ what others expect you to do and be, to cook that pasta sauce like Nanna always did it, to give of yourself in a way that is…expected.

The struggle that we all face in our creative journies is summed up in one phrase; the urge to be a people-pleaser.

People pleasing in all arenas, is a venom that destroys the true voice of authenticity. It robs creatives of their God-given seed to flourish as they were meant to, to create in a way that brings Him glory, and them fulfillment.

Pastor Craig Groeschel put it this way,

“Living for the approval of people will keep you from living for the purpose of God.”

The book of Proverbs says it like this, “The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord shall be safe. (Proverbs 29:25).

When we allow our hearts to be moved by our fear of what people around us will accept or the thought they will shout ‘That can’t be done,’ or ‘That is impossible,’ we lose our divine authenticity. We lose the power to be who we were created to be. We fall into the snare of inauthenticity.

If you grew up in a Christian environment, I am sure you’ve heard the adage, “Less of me and more of You, God.” As ‘humble’ as that may sound, it goes against what God wants for you and from you.

Yes, He delights for us to do all things unto Him and for His glory (Colossians 3:23-24), but He wants us to do things in the image that He created us in. He wants more of unique you.

Just as He doesn’t want a rose to shed its thorns in order to be like a daisy, neither does He delight to see Rose attempting to do things like her friend, Daisy, just because that is what has gotten man’s stamp of approval. Nor does He want any of us to stop being who He has uniquely imagined and created us to be.

We are, all of us, fearfully and wonderfully made, knit together by His hands with divine, and awesomely unique creativity (Psalm 139:13-14).

Can you be you? Absolutely! That is what you were created to be.

Whatever is burning inside of you may require you to not walk a path created, but to be a trailblazer and create a new path altogether. In order to do this you have to be you … and no one else.

You are going to face opposition when you take the courage to be the creative you that you are called to be. You are going to face mountains and even have to walk through many sung ballets of how you can’t do what you are doing with your authentic voice. But the beauty is, you can win if you step out in faith.

So I encourage you to be your authentic self, confirming the truth of the unique attributes that define you and the characteristics of your creative voice. You will win if you determine to be you!

“Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.” ~Oscar Wilde


~Dream. Imagine. Believe. Do CONQUER!

*Photo by Diana Simumpande on Unsplash

What are your thoughts about being an authentic creative? Share your wisdom in the comments below!


  1. Great post Candice.

    There is so much in your post that resonated with me.

    What stood out the most though was how important it is to be me. Not only that but how being myself is good. It’s not bad, it’s not risky, it’s simply good and part of what YAH wants.

    I loved this statement you made, “He wants more of unique you.”

    I couldn’t agree more. So at the end of the day it’s not about what man thinks and wants. It’s about being the person that YAH created me to be and not be afraid to express it. It’s coming to terms with who YAH created me to be and loving it!

    Bless you.


    • Hello Rolain! I am so grateful to hear that these words have blessed you and resonated with you! And yes, it is so important for all of us to be who we are. Think about how a house is fit together. Although all the floorboards may be made of oak, none of them are cut the same. If they were, the floor would never fit together nor achieve its beauty as a whole and completed piece. Or like David, who was just as much king, and more so than Saul, could not wear his armour. David had to defeat the enemy in the way our Heaven Father uniquely equipped him to do so. We may not immediately see how our trueness to His design for us is a blessing to and for others, but it is and it is so necessary. Thank you for reading and sharing your words!

      Be Blessed,


    • Big smiles over here! Hearing that is very encouraging and I mean that sincerely. I prayerfully remind myself that what I am led to share maybe just for one heart to hear and my prayer is that they hear it when they need it most. Thank you for reading and blessing my morning 🙂

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